Advice

[Oriol]

Hi,

I post some good advices for couples that I have found on the Internet.

1. You are not perfect, so accept your mistakes.

2. Have patience, your couple is not perfect either.

3. Arguing is not a combat. It's useful to listen and understand the point o view of your couple. And it may help you to see your own mistakes.

4. Take time for yourself to do what you love, what makes you happy and gives you energy and let your partner do what he or she loves Being successful as a couple will only work if each of you is strong and fulfilled as an individual.

5. Find new things, new hobbies to do together It's just another reason to spend time together.

6. Have a good sense of humour. With humour problems are lighter.

[Diana Aristizabal]

Life as a couple depends on the behavior of both, they will always have differences because we have all had different forms of education. Diversity is more enjoyable and fun, it is a matter of tolerance and flexibility. Life is just one and we should enjoy it to the fullest and in the best way. Happiness comes from everyone, it doesn´t depend of other people. As you comment the humor is a way to carry everything in a lighter way.

[Fernanda]

My grandmother gave me advice when I got married, never tell your husbands that we are smarter than them.

[Jaime]

Hello!!
My answers:

1. I agree with the point of view about the differences between men and women in the way of thinking, about the time of birth, women are more emotional than men, women like to talk more about their daily routines, Men are reserved to tell their lives. The styles of conversation are different but complementary, it is a strong point of attraction, it would be boring, that all people have the same way of thinking and behaving.
2. . You're watching TV, you're enjoying your favorite show, when your partner asks you to go to a concert. What do you do?
a. You miss your favorite show and go to the concert.
b. Keep watching TV, it does not matter if your partner gets mad about it.
c. You try to explain that the television program is better than the concert.

Thanks for your attention!!

[Jaime]

Hello!!
My answers:

About this topic, I have read some pages, here there are some advices for the couples:
a. Tell the sentiments, it´s not good hide the feels, some people not show it them feel, after time they explot.
b. Share time together, doing activities that both like.
c. Receive advises to friends or familiers when start a fight with a couple, to get ideas how resolve the problems.
d. Remember the couple´s good aspects, when both are angry, is important see the good features, the good is more than the bad aspects of the other person.
e. Listen couple´s point of view, understand to couple is the first step to looking for a way to resolve the problems.
Thanks for your attention!!