by Marinta Bonet » Wed Sep 22, 2010 10:57 pm
I was named after my grandmother Maria Cinta, although everybody calls me Marinta.
My first name has a religious origin. According to an old story, the night of 24th of March in 1178 the Virgin Mary appeared in Tortosa ‘s Cathedral. As every day in every country of Spain, the monks used to sing Matins around twelve o’clock. It was not yet, the hour to go to the choir, but a virtuous monk had the impulse of going towards the central plant of the cathedral. When he arrived, he found the doors open and he listen someone singing the Te-Deum, which saddened him, since he thought he had been late.
Soon, he noticed that, inside the church, there was a great shining and a woman full of majesty preceded by a choir of angels was walking towards the altar.
The lady made a gesture and asked him to approach beside her. When the monk was by her side, she said to him that she was “the mother of God” and those who were nearby were her disciples. She said to him she was proud of Tortosa’s inhabitants because they had built the church in her honour, for that reason she was going to leave to them a ribbon she was wearing around his belly made by her.
Since that time, every woman in the city before giving birth used to wear a ribbon to guarantee a good delivery. This tradition is applied nowadays for the Spanish royal family. So when the royal ladies are pregnant, they use the sacred relic kept in the cathedral to assure a good birth.
Since the immigration’s increase there are lots of names coming to Catalunya that have the origin in other places in the world. As in everything there are fashions in names. These days it’s very common to find Paules, Irines o Martines in Catalunya. Names that come from the latin, greek and latin respectively and are mostly used in Argentina, Russia and Italy.
My family name is Bonet. The surname Bonet is a diminutive derivative of the form “bo”. In the 9th century, this name, as a nickname, turned up in the Latin form of “Bonetus”. It is considered itself coming from France, from where it arrived to Catalonia and later to Valencia and Mallorca.
Nicolau Bonet accompanied the king Jaume I in a galley to conquest the island of Mallorca. This monarch rewarded him from his services, offering him some lands, where the Knight set up the town of Santany.
There are around 4276 other surnames investigated by the Catalan Heraldry. We have information about the origin, meaning, arms and shield, statistics, characters and genealogy. Some of the most commons are Abad, Avellà, Alzina, Robert or Roca.
Normally in Catalunya, when people meet for the first time they use the first name or the first name plus surname depending on the context. If is a formal context, like job or appointments with aged people is more polite to use the first name plus the surname with the titles Mrs or Mr, but between young people is common to use the first name and do not use any title.
Finally, we use pet name to show affection, such “carinyet”, “amor”, “bitxo” or others, depending on the people’s imagination!