Free time

[Valentina]

Hello everyone,

I am having a lot of issues because I barely have time for my family or friends. I work all the time and on my free time all I want to do is sleep, what can I do? How can I manage time better? This is really affecting my personal life.

Thanks in advance.

[Jaime]

Hello Valentina!!

I was in similar situation, I'm a doctor, in the weekdays I work in a hospital, and the saturdays I´m a teacher in a university, my wife was angry becouse I have not time for her. I decided make a schedule, in this I choose two days for share with her, in the others days I do the work activities. You should define which moments want share with their and respect these. With my wife I share the wednesday evenings and the sunday, and currently she is happy with me .

!!Thanks for your attention!!

[Jaime]

Hello!!

I have a problem, I got married four years ago, my wife know I don´t like the childrens, but she want a son, she is angry with me for this. I don´t know if I can able to have enought money for buy diapers, milk, and the other things which need a baby, I am worried, I don´t like to divorce, but I don´t know if I can be able to give to my son the necessary things.

!!Thanks for your attention!!

[Admin]

Oh that's a difficult situation Jaime - I'm not the right person to give you advice, because I don't have any children. But with time your wife will get more and more unhappy. I know lots of men who didn't want children -for different reasons, but once the children were born they started to enjoy being a father and the practical problems got solved somehow.
See you!
Pieter

[Jaime]

Hello Pieter thanks for read my message, I believe you have reason in your commentary.

[Jaime]

Hello!!

My answers of net search:

In a web page I found a history about a university student, he is very sad because his friends not invite him to the parties, they say “he is very bored and doesn´t like dancing” the student ask an advice, he wouldn´t like miss the friends.

About the history I think he should try to learn dancing, sometimes the people have an unfounded fears, if he try learn dancing maybe end up liking, if definitely doesn´t like this, his friends thanking the try and not ended the relationship.

!!Thanks for your attention!!

[Admin]

Hello Jaime, good advice - the guy should try to learn to dance and then see what happens. But maybe the dancing is not the problem? Maybe he is a boring person and that is why his "friends" don't invite him? :)
Can I help?
I found a history= a story. History is the study of the past. A story is an anecdote.
his friends not invite him = .. don't invite him..
he is very bored = .. he is very boring. (This means he is not an interesting person. He is bored means he is not happy because he has nothing to do.)
if he try learn dancing = If he tries to learn to dance
See you!
Pieter

[Jaime]

OK thanks Pieter!!